Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Death Do Us Part.

Salam buat semua.Thank You for all the inspiring words:) 

Life and death are not in our hands but with doa we can try our best to make it good. Thank You LG for sharing the same views with me:) I always kagum with those living abroad for their courage and hardwork,living far apart from family is always not easy. But bumi Allah Swt is for you to explore ,if you grow seeds insyAllah you have the fruits,if you spread love insyAllah you ll be embrace by it.

It is so true also that when you want to look up please also look down,when you want to look at your less please look also at those lesser than you.If you feel sad for losing your car,your money there are people who just lost their loved ones that they been depending all the while,a child that lost a mother, a wife that lost a husband.

I want to share a sad love story here as yesterday was a sad day for a special lady.That lady is my niece,we are of the same age..dia mengalami 3 kehilangan besar dalam hidup,first she lost her father (my eldest brother) about 7 years ago, she lost her marriage not long after that and yesterday she lost her fiancé whom she supposed to marry on 17/6/2012 (Israq Mikraj)


Alfatihah. Looking at this picture posted by my niece's daughter at her fb i remember this song entitled "Selimut Putih"

Ya Izrail datang memanggil jasad terbujur di pembaringan,
Seluruh tubuh akan menggigil,terkujur badan dan kedinginan.

Sangat sedih dan menginsafkan bait2 lagu ini.

My niece got a second chance in love&marriage after the first one was a failure, a fine,very nice gentleman managed to open her heart after it had been broken badly. Before they got engaged 2 years ago the arwah sent my niece and her mother (my sister in law) to Mekah as he wanted her to be really sure,he wanted her to berdoa there and their relationship be blessed.After my niece came back from Mekah they got engaged,i attended the ceremony,it was a lovely one,arwah was so happy to become part of our family even his sons from the first marriage gave blessing and  were there hugging his father and talked to us all the time with smile on their faces.Arwah came to my house for dinner,he sat next to Uwan,squeezed Uwan's hands and asked her to stay healthy and strong so that Uwan can attend the wedding.

Since last year they been making preparation for their wedding this year,all baju etc sudah di tempah.When Uwan was hospitalized early this year, arwah came with my niece, he consoled Uwan and my niece cried she asked  Uwan to be strong and get better fast,i stilled remember she said between her tears " uwan mesti sembuh cepat,nanti Uwan kena datang Idah kawin,Uwan duduk di baris depan sekali untuk tengok Idah" Last month about 3 weeks before they got married arwah told my niece he wants to send my niece and her mother to Mekah again, he want my niece to have no doubt,to tenangkan hati etc..this time my sister in law was not well so arwah arranged for better class,he arranged everything infact and according to my niece when he sent her off at KLIA he told my niece many many times "don;t worry i ll be here waiting for you when you come back..i ll be right here,you don't worry,go and do your ibadah..remember i ll be right here waiting for you when you come back"

One week at Mekah; she received news that arwah was found coma in his bathroom, bomba had to break the bathroom door and it seems that he fell outside the bath tub and went into coma for two days before he was found by is son.He had silent stroke,arwah lived alone in his house as his two grown up children are in the University already.My niece prayed days and nights in Mekah to Allah Swt to be given opportunity to see him.My niece completed her umrah,came back and found his fiancé  in coma,he was motionless and the doctor said he was braindead,the doctor had to make two holes in his head to drain out the bleeding. The amazing thing was;even he was in coma all the while but when my niece came to see him, tears will stream down his cheeks non stop and his hands will make a slow movement as if he was crying deeply. My niece spent the last one month reciting Quran and Yassin in hospital,she commuted between Johor and KL to be with him in the hospital.And during that time whenever my niece came arwah will have tears streaming down his both cheeks.

Finally, yesterday night arwah pun pergi meninggalkan semua yang dikasihi buat selamanya. My niece is a very strong lady but for sure she is in a deep sorrow now; looking at the wedding gown,remembering his words to wait for her:( Dari Allah kita datang kepada Allah kita kembali.Kita boleh merancang tapi tak dapat menjangka walau sedikit mana pun apa yang akan berlaku.May she be tabah as always.Amin.



My niece is a single mother with 4 children, she managed to bring up her children well.Her eldest is doing very well in Uni,he is a respectable student leader, excel in Scout,been appointed as leader for the Country and he travels around the world on these two position.


My niece's son (my cucu) is a very talented photographer too and i am proud to share some of his shots  he took from his travel when he was just 18. 

















On a different note,today i had lunch with few friends.We went to a friend house in Denai Alam,kawan ni dulu asalnya kenal masa fotopages,ikut ke blog after that we jumpa2,she then ikut her husband to Riyadh,now she balik Malaysia.So we had great time chatting and eating in her beautiful house.


Today's lunch trip reminds me of my house i sold not far from there.


Wonder how is she doing with the new owner;)


Managed to spend few weekends there;):)


It is  a busy week and i look forward to the upcoming weekend and have "Me and You" time with my husband.I always treasure our time together at the bookstore while the two attending their piano class.


 Picture of budak nomok masa kecik:):)


And i want to share this with everybody as Uwan told me the same thing when i was small. She said her father told her that api neraka is so panas hinggakan jika jatuh walau sebesar zarah pun di atas dunia ni,dunia akan terbakar sekelip mata.Oleh itu my arwah atuk told my mom kalau nak buat satu dosa cuba ambik mancis api dan bakar satu jari,tengok tahan tak kepanasanya yang cuma nothing kalau nak dibandingkan api neraka.


Finally good night everybody ..May Allah Swt merahmati kita semua.






21 comments:

susumanis said...

Ya rabb..pls make mtm's niece strong..pls bless her...aaminn..

Aisyah Rafaei said...

so touching..may Allah tempatkan dia bersama ahli syurga..and may Allah bagi kekuatan kpd k zu niece..Amin...

Salmi said...

Salaam takziah..dari Allah kita datang, dari Allah jua kita kembali..saat itu tidak dicepatkan atau dilewatkan..moga Allah menempatkan arwah bersama-sama orang yang beriman..me still remember the entry about the engagement....ketentuan Allah itu pasti yang sangat terbaik buat hambanya..kerana dia adalah perancang yang terbaik..moga Allah berikan kekuatan kepada your niece and her family untuk menghadapi dugaan yang sukar ini..begitu juga dengan anak2 arwah.

kasihredha said...

Al Fatihah
sungguh terharu & sebak.
semoga Allah anugerahkan ketabahan dan kekuatan buat your niece.

saniah said...

Alfatihah...moga ruhnya ditempat kan bersama org2 yg beriman disisiNya...
Takziah utk your neice.. ya Allah...kau berikanlah kekuatan pd hamba Mu ini..amiiiiin
Sebak membaca entry ni

umiyumi said...

Salam takziah... sangat sedih membacanya, apa lagi org yg menanggungnya. semoga arwah ditempatkan di kalangan org2 yg beriman.. Amin.. mmg betul hidup kita hanya sementara. sampai masa kita akan kembali kepadaNya.
Al fatihah.

Anonymous said...

sedihnya i baca cerita ni, berat mata memandang, berat lagi bahu yg memikul..i berdoa sangat2 yg your niece will be strong to face this dugaan, dan anak2 arwah tabah atas kehilangan bapa mereka...

yatie

twins mom said...

So touching...Al-Fatihah..smoga arwah ditempatkan dikalangan org yg beriman.. To ur niece,smoga tabah dlm menjalani kehidupan ini, and don worry she still have her children.. Salam untk niece kak zu..

Aimi Laili said...

Takziah untuk niece akak...

Hanis Azla said...

Allahuakbar.. janji Allah itu benar.. semoga roh arwah tenang di sana.. teringat kata2 yg org selalu cakap, org yg baik2 selalunya cepat pergi meninggalkan kita.. seronok mendengar semua kebaikan arwah.. semoga arwah ditempatkan bersama org2 yg beriman.. sebak dgn cerita sedih itu.. semoga anak saudara k.zu terus tabah hendaknya..

Nur68 said...

Alfatihah. Semoga roh arwah tenang di sana dan ditempatkan bersama-sama orang2 yang beriman.

Sebak membaca entry ini...sesungguh Allah Maha Besar, Maha Agung dan Maha Kaya...Allahuakbhar!...

Fatimah said...

Touching! touching!touching!.... i nak nangis ni....Dah lah baru dengar news yg tak berapa enak pagi ni, tambah baca entry ni.... i sebak....

annhuzi said...

tersangat berat ujian for your niece. we doa insyaAllah she'll be strong and she'll remember all the kind deeds of her late fiance and those sweet memories will help her through. we doa also ruhnya dikumpulkan bersama para solihin dan segala amal solehnya diberkati dan kebaikan berpanjangan kepada anak2nya juga. DIA lebeh mengetahui dan memberi kita yang terbaik, walau hajat tak kesampaian, pasti ada yang terbaik menanti ganjaran bagi usaha ikhlas, sabar, yakin dan redha.

potpetmama said...

Zu; Alfatihah..salam takziah kpd ur niece, muga dugaan Allah itu tidak mematahkan kekuatan hati dan iman..sangat terharu.beban yang menanggung apakan lagi..kita yang hidup ni perlu sentiasa menginsafi apa juga yang kita ada dan tiada..hargailah..muga kita semua mendapat keberkatan..hari ini dan esok hanya Dia yang tahu..

beta kupu said...

Obviously, it’s very hard for ur niece to accepted, pray that she will be strong and think positively, stiap yg jadi ada hikmah….al fatihah

fiezachommel said...

Salam Kak Zu,
Ya Allah, sungguh sedih baca tulisan Kak Zu hari ini.
Semoga niece Kak Zu, Kak Idah tabah menempuh hari mendatang.

Looking at it, I thought I was the only one who being tested from Allah.Rupanya masih ada yang lebiih berat dugaannya.

Moga dengan dugaan ini kita lebih dekat denganNYA.
Amin

greetingsfromengland said...

al-fatihah and takziah to you and family, your niece especially. remember that Allah won't burden us with something that we cannot bear, as hard as it is now, your niece is a very strong character to be tested as such in life, inshallah she will come through it as a much stronger person.

Lily said...
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Lily said...

takziah yer...cerita itu membuatkan saya teringat kisah kami sekeluarga juga kehilangan,abang saya kembali kerahmatullah dalam usia muda....dan apa yang berlaku dalam hidup kita telah tertulis kan....cuma kita kn hargai apa yang kita ada dan nikmati hidup serta bersyukur.....

Nbi sputeri said...

Salam takziah untuk yr niece.itu Dugan untuk dia untuk kita pulak belum tahu lagi kan.moga rohnya di cucuri rahmat Dan di tempatkan bersama roh org2 yg beriman.AlFatihah

cik tudung senget said...

Masya allah kak zu.sedihnya baca cerita ini.